25 Questions to Help You Reflect Your 2014


Hello! It's less than 24 hours before the new year rolls in and I found this blog post from into-mind.com that listed questions to answer in order to help you reflect your 2014. Originally there are 40 questions but I decided to narrow it down. Anyway, I had some sort of ephipany while answering those questions. I did quite a lot this year. And I grow a little bit.. I hope. (Click Read More and read my answers :) )


1. If you had to describe your 2014 in 3 words, what would they be?

2. What new things did you discover about yourself?

3. What single achievements are you most proud of?

4. What was the best news you received?

5. What was your favorite place that you visited in 2014?

6. Which new skills did you learn?

7. What or who are you most thankful for?

8. What was the most important lesson you learnt in 2014?

9. What was your favourite compliment that you received this year?

10. What little things did you most enjoy during your day-to-day life? 

11. What book or movie affected your life in a profound way?

12. What cool things did you create this year?

13. What was your most common mental state this year?

14. Was there anything you did for the very first time in your life this year?

15. What was your favourite moment spent with your friends?

16. What experience would you love to do all over again?

17. What was the best gift you received?

18. How did your overall outlook on life evolve?

19. What was the biggest problem you solved?

20. What was the funniest moment of your year, one that still makes it hard not to burst out laughing    when you think about it?

21. What one thing would you do differently and why?

22. What activities made you lose track of time?

23. What topics did you most enjoy learning about?

24. What new habits did you cultivate?

25. What advice would you give to your early 2014 self if you could?


  1. If you had to describe your 2014 in 3 words, what would they be?
    Adventureous, blessed, and calm.

  2. What new things did you discover about yourself?
    I am a recovering addict of Kim Kardashian game.

  3. What single achievements are you most proud of?
    My blog is featured into a book (Indonesian Fashion Blogger Now) that is sold nation-wide.

  4. What was the best news you received?
    My sister is getting married!

  5. What was your favorite place that you visited in 2014?
    Hmm.. Paris, I guess. (Click here to see my post about my Paris adventure)

  6. Which new skills did you learn?
    Nothing! I just started learning Mandarin tho.

  7. What or who are you most thankful for?
    My family.

  8. What was the most important lesson you learnt in 2014?
    How to say no.

  9. What was your favourite compliment that you received this year?
    That some people don't know what they would do without me helping them out.

  10. What little things did you most enjoy during your day-to-day life? 
          Excercising. When the endorphin kicks in.. it's the best feeling.


11. What book or movie affected your life in a profound way?
      The Winning Attitude by John Maxwell.

12. What cool things did you create this year?
       Headpieces for my friend's fashion show.

13. What was your most common mental state this year?
       Peaceful.

14. Was there anything you did for the very first time in your life this year?
      Climbing a mountain! Mount Sinai, to be exact. I also rode a camel for the very 1st time.

15. What was your favourite moment spent with your friends?
       Our trip to Bali at the beginning of the year :)

16. What experience would you love to do all over again?
      Our vacation to Europe! I'll do again in a heartbeat. (Click here to read all my posts about this holiday)

17. What was the best gift you received?
      A cross diamond necklace from my mom

18. How did your overall outlook on life evolve?
      I try to care more. My biggest issue with life is I don't care.. And now, I try to be open and show 
      my feelings more. Including saying no (as stated in question no 8)

19. What was the biggest problem you solved?
       Hemming a jumpsuit with only pins literally 30 minutes before the singer had to get on stage.

20. What was the funniest moment of your year, one that still makes it hard not to burst out laughing    when you think about it?
     O my.. I had plenty. I guess I just have a happy life.. But if there is one that I would tell my grandchildren is this : So 10 of us were strolling around in Amsterdam and we walked in to a cheese store.. And we were trying out cheese just spreading out around the store and after like 10 minutes we all walked out and start wandering around again. Or so we thought. After about 15 minutes of walking, one of my aunt who lives in Delft, realized that one people were missing. She was like “one people's not here!” in sort of a panicky state. And we were all like “no . . . we all here!”. So my aunt who lives in Delft got a phone call and it was our Aunt Bian! She was left at the store and none of us realize that she was missing. Oh, it was funny and a little bit mean actually. But still, we all have a good laugh everytime the story came up.



21. What one thing would you do differently and why?
       I would definitely shopped less and use the money for charity.

22. What activities made you lose track of time?
      Pinterest. That is one evil application.

23. What topics did you most enjoy learning about?
       History of places that I visited.

24. What new habits did you cultivate?
      Exercising regularly 3 times a week. Reading bible everyday. Taking less sleeping pills

25. What advice would you give to your early 2014 self if you could?
      Definitely to use money more wisely. 

I hope you enjoy reading my answers as much as I had fun answering it! Some questions did make me ponder a bit more about life..

May God make your coming year a happy one! Not by shielding you from bad times, but by strengthening you to bear it. Not by making your path easy, but by making you sturdy to travel any path. Not by granting you unbroken sunshine, but by keeping your face bright, even in the shadow.

Happy New Year 2015!

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