Hello, blogger friends.

I hope everybody had a good weekend.

I feel like I have been a little distracted lately. I keep typing about clothes and what I think about the clothes but I never actually talk.. Is that even make any sense? 

Anyway, when was the last time you did something for the first time? It doesn't have to be big. Maybe the first time you successfully tackle that parallel parking. Or like me, presenting for XG News video for the first time. Which was weird and awkward but still, fun and a learning experience anyway.

There's a thrill when you are doing something for the first time. You don't know what you're doing. You don't know what's gonna happen. And you might even feel that old pal of fear creeping in. Most of the time people avoid things that they don't know. As humans, we are attracted to the familiar things in life because it's safe and we are just camping around in our comfort zone. And it's a trap. Trust me, comfort zone is scary because it feels and looks safe but it's actually keeping you away from all the things God has prepared for you. So yes, do things for the first time anytime you can. If it's not life threatening or against the law, by all means, do it.

First time baking that challenging Opera cake, first time camping under starlights, first time trotting that 15 centimeters high heels, first time you kiss, first day at work, or simply the first time you listened to one whole CD without pressing that next button! My point is, life is too short to not doing things. Most people I know regret things they didn't do and laugh off the silly or even the big mistakes they did in the past.

www.lifehack.org has great tips when you are doing something for the first time. 1) Ditch the perfection! It's your first time, perfection is second. 2) Forget what others think. People are actually kinder than your brain thinks, when you are open about your inexperience, they will actually encourage you. 3) The time you spend doesn't matter. You are learning. Remember when you're a kid? Your mom was so patient teaching you all those alphabets. Give yourself a break. 4) Plan and prepare. If possible, plan and prepare as much as you can. You will gain more self-confidence! 5) Prepare for the second time. It doesn't hurt to take notes!

So might this Monday to come, we all will try something for the first time!

Do tell me what was the last time you did something for the first time? Or even better, your plan of doing something for the first time! :)

vintage blouse - Down Memory Lanes, flowery skirt - Gaudi, flower crown - Inspired by Luce, pink heels - The Little Things She Need, Gummy bag - c/o Laku.com 

floral crown - Inspired by Luce, pale pink blazer - Mango, white tee - c/o Sacs Et Chaussures, stockings - PVJ booth, pink heels - Little Things She Needs

People judge you in the first seven seconds when they saw you. They gauge your attitude, your posture, eye contact, and facial expression. And you'll never know who will be your next boss, your next bestfriend, or even your future Prince Charming. So my suggestion is try to always smile and look confident. Stand up straight and relax your facial muscles so you don't look stress or angry. If you do look like that, people might just think you are an angry and stressful person. And well, that's not exactly  attractive. Thus, I always try to smile more and put my best pink heel forward.

How adorable this pink heels are! I love the fact that it's pink, obviously. But it also has the perfect height to walk around in for all day long. The white tee is from Sacs et Chaussures. Although I am not a t-shirt person, I thought I tried it out once in a while. I actually amazed how the tee made the whole outfit looks more "free". Sacs et Chaussures sells clothes and accesories. My favorite is this adorable yellow mustard shorts with studs.

Have a great Monday, all!